Dedicated to the memory of Raymond Bacon

This site is a tribute to Raymond Bacon. He is much loved and will always be remembered.

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4 years ago
Sally

In memory of a wonderful grandad. Grateful that my Nanna chose a charity that supports the next generation in such wonderful ways. Love you always grandad x

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4 years ago
Thomas

There are so many special memories of Grandad that I will always remember and are very precious to me. I never thought the last time I would hug and see Grandad would be when we both waved goodbye to each other through his side room window at Broomfield Hospital after his second hip operation. I remember the nurses watching us both waving at each other and remarking how lovely that was. Never did I realise that would be my last wave goodbye to Grandad and looking back, although it fills me with devastating sadness, I fondly remember him smiling as he waved goodbye to me and my father. It was like he was doing the Royal wave goodbye to us both and he looked happy that we had both cheered him up for over an hour, especially with Dad’s stories about their days working together at Barking Side Motors. One of my fondest enduring memories of Grandad was watching Formula One with him, often with Nanna watching too. Grandad would be really excited before the Grand Prix, sitting in his usual chair and pouring us both a beer before the race started. Although he would always complain that they spent too much time talking before the race started and sometimes fall asleep half way through the race! Another fond memory of Grandad was that he loved watching Deal or No Deal with Noel Edmonds. It was one of his favourite TV programmes. He loved the drama of the boxes being opened, but I always remember Nanna hating the programme and she would either hide behind a pillow or in the kitchen, as she couldn’t cope with the suspense which Grandad enjoyed so much! Of course, as everyone probably knows Grandad would always promptly pour a Gin & Tonic at 5pm for us all, although he loved his beer too. Nanna and Grandad called it a Sundowner and it was very enjoyable to share those moments with them both. At dinner time, it was always a tradition that Nanna and Grandad would never pass the salt pot directly to anyone, as it was considered to bring bad luck. This is something that I have come to consider very important too, so never pass the salt!

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4 years ago
Andrew and Elizabeth
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Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains exactly as it was. I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before. How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again! Henry Scott-Holland
5th July 2020
'In Case I Forget' A poem by Norms McNamara In case i forget when glancing at you, The one who makes me complete, Dementia may have won my mind, But my heart it will never Defeat. In case i forget the children we've raised, Or the hundreds of stories I've told, Shed not a tear for blessed are we, Who forgot one day, we are old. In case i forget to tell you how much, You're cherised and treasured each day, My best friend beside me to brighten the path, And carry me all of the way. I may greet you someday, with questioning eyes, As a stranger with whom I've just met, Still, i love you my darling, with all of my heart, Remember...... In case i forget.
Maddy
4th July 2020

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Thinking of you nanna and grandad. Today i reliased that it was 3 years since i last saw you all. The pandemic has a lot to answer for. Hope you are both keeping each other good company up there, may be we are already there with you and only on earth we feel loss, afterall time is just a construct. We all love and miss you so much. I wish that Teddy had got to meet you both. He is the happiest sweetest little thing. He looks like dad, its so funny when dad is holding him. The first thing i thought when i saw him for the first time was that i recognised him. You would have thought he was great. His a determined little baby and loves crawling fast, clapping, banging the drum and food, particularly his brothers. Arlo is doing well, he is an autistic boy, he isn't verbal but knows how to get his feelings known. He loves peg puzzles, baby shark, fishes, toy fruits and vegetables and is full of energy like when Jenny was young. Oh how i would like to tap into a bit of that energy now and again. We are looking at special schools for him to attend next September and hope with there help he will start communicating more fully. Berry is a beautiful darling, so sweet, so funny, so headstrong, so clever and so caring. She likes everything enthusiastically, particularly her dolls, peppa pig and her bunny. Anyway, just wanted to say how much i love you both and miss you dearly. Thank you for being such wonderful grandparents. Xxx
Lit by Maddy on 11th November 2022
I miss you grandad. I was looking at a picture of you and Arlo together today. We are so lucky you got to spend time together. Love you. Xx
Lit on 2nd March 2021
To show our love for Grandad, always and forever
Lit by Thomas on 13th July 2020
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